Competent and Confident and Secure


"A competent and self-confident person is incapable of jealousy in anything. Jealousy (bullying) is invariably a symptom of neurotic insecurity." - Robert A. Heinlein

"It's the bully who's insecure." - Shay Mitchell

"Bullying is a cowardly act. It's easy to bully someone when they aren't looking or when they can't fight back." - Ronda Rousey

"The most talented and decent employees are most often workplace bullying targets. They trigger a bully’s great fear of being exposed as an incompetent fraud.” (Paknis, 2018)

#leadersarentbullies #HealthyWorkplaces #leaderselevatethoughtandconduct #decency #psychologicalsafetyatworkact

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