Matt Paknis Leadership Development

 

"Peace comes from within. Do not seek it without." — Buddha "If there is to be peace in the world, There must be peace in the nations... There must be peace in the home... There must be peace in the heart." — Lao Tzu "Peace is not the absence of conflict, it is the ability to handle conflict by peaceful means." — Ronald Reagan "Peace begins with a smile." — Mother Teresa "Real peace is the presence of something beautiful" — Prem Rawat #peace #World #Nations #home #heart #love #leadersarentbullies #healthyworkplaces #leaderselevatethoughtandconduct #smile #psychologicalsafetyatworkact #beauty

"Emotions are energy, and energy can neither be created nor destroyed, only transformed." — Deepak Chopra "It's not about managing your emotions. It's about managing your reaction to your emotions." — Yung Pueblo "Whatever is begun in anger, ends in shame." — Benjamin Franklin #emotions #energy #transform #reaction #leadersarentbullies #healthyworkplaces #leaderselevatethoughtandconduct #calm #psychologicalsafetyatworkact #peace

Tortious interference is formally defined as intentional and improper interference with another's contractual or business relationships. "Never stir up litigation. A worse (person / company) can scarcely be found than one who does this." — Abraham Lincoln "Misery is the company of lawsuits." — Francois Rabelais "Lawsuits are catastrophic experiences." — Benjamin N. Cardozo #TortiousInterference #litigation #bullying #leadersarentbullies #healthyworkplaces #leaderselevatethoughtandconduct #truth #psychologicalsafetyatworkact #justice

"The one common denominator for resilient children is early intervention. It does work, and it seems to improve the prognosis." - Temple Grandin  "He who seeks to terrify others is more in fear himself". - Claudius Claudianus "Leadership is taking accountability yourself and holding others to the same standard, regardless of what's going on." - Jason Kelce #intervention #Resilience #accountability #leadersarentbullies #healthyworkplaces #leaderselevatethoughtandconduct #change #psychologicalsafetyatworkact #consequence  Unless there is intervention, severe consequences, and changed behavior, bullying children become bullying adults where they continue to do what they learned to do best to get what they want—to terrorize others.

"The welfare of each of us is dependent fundamentally upon the welfare of all of us." — Theodore Roosevelt "Our own safety, our own security, depends upon our willingness to do what it takes to defend this nation and uphold the values that we stand for" - Barack Obama "The first duty of the American government is to protect American citizens..." — Donald Trump #AllForOne #safety #security #defend #protect  #leadersarentbullies #healthyworkplaces #leaderselevatethoughtandconduct #team #psychologicalsafetyatworkact #democracy

"Society has a duty to recognize and defend the human right to safety." - Eleanor Roosevelt "To sin by silence when they should protest makes cowards of (people)." — Ella Wheeler Wilcox "A (person) dies when (they) refuse to stand up for what is right." — Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. #recognize #defend #humanrights #protest #leadersarentbullies #healthyworkplaces #leaderselevatethoughtandconduct #standup #psychologicalsafetyatworkact #democracy  

Most initial clients hired me to teach and assure their influencers were demonstrating healthy and effective management practices in compliance with safe workplace laws.   After 29 years of successful global service, it was ironic I was sued for elevating a reputable safety threat.   "A lawsuit can be a weapon." - Bari Weiss "Of all injustice, that which is greatest which goes under the name of law..." - Roger L'Estrange Babachanian #teachers #safety #motivation #justice #truth #leadersarentbullies #healthyworkplaces #leaderselevatethoughtandconduct #honesty #psychologicalsafetyatworkact #democracy

"Toxic leaders are often protected by their cronies, so cronyism doesn't just annoy employees; it kills morale, tanks productivity, and makes the company look like a clown show, a bad one." - PeopleHum "The greater the power, the more dangerous the abuse." - Edmund Burke  #merit #morale #motivation #production #leadersarentbullies #healthyworkplaces #leaderselevatethoughtandconduct #truth #psychologicalsafetyatworkact #justice In a bullying environment, protected, corrupt, complicit, colluding, and preferred executive relations and favoritism violate and undermine a target's individual rights, well being, health, safety, and productivity.

"As I would not be a slave, so I would not be a master. This expresses my idea of democracy."  "...government of the people, by the people, for the people, shall not perish from the earth". - Abraham Lincoln "Knowing what's right doesn't mean much unless you do what's right." — Theodore Roosevelt "If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor." — Desmond Tutu #democracy #rights #justice #peace #equality  #leadersarentbullies #healthyworkplaces #leaderselevatethoughtandconduct #truth #psychologicalsafetyatworkact #FreeSpeech

"(Bullies) are social predators, and like all predators, they are looking for feeding grounds. Wherever you get power, prestige and money, you will find them." - Robert D. Hare "No One Deserves to Be Abused." - Tina Blacksmith “Out of suffering have emerged the strongest souls.” ~Kahlil Gibran #strength #character #truth #justice #humility  #leadersarentbullies #healthyworkplaces #leaderselevatethoughtandconduct #grit #psychologicalsafetyatworkact #transcend

"If I were to remain silent, I'd be guilty of complicity." – Albert Einstein Einstein "There are two kinds of lawyers, those who know the law and those who know the judge." – Anonymous #justice #truth #integrity #freedom #FairTrial #leadersarentbullies #healthyworkplaces #leaderselevatethoughtandconduct #honesty #psychologicalsafetyatworkact #democracy

"It distorted reality. Consumed reality. Fear created its own reality." - Louise Penny "Sometimes the point isn't to make people believe a lie - it's to make people fear the liar." - Anne Applebaum "For every good reason there is to lie, there is a better reason to tell the truth." - Bo Bennett #courage #truth #reality #clarity #honesty #leadersarentbullies #healthyworkplaces #leaderselevatethoughtandconduct #justice #psychologicalsafetyatworkact #liberty  Bullies hate to be objective. It requires transparency, integrity, honesty and truth.  These are unwelcome traits in their deceptive and distorted power-control fiefdoms.

"Where you see wrong or inequality or injustice, speak out, because this is your country" - Thurgood Marshall. "When I liberate myself, I liberate others" - Fannie Lou Hamer "Happiness depends upon ourselves." - Aristotle #peace #equality #justice #love #happiness #leadersarentbullies #healthyworkplaces #leaderselevatethoughtandconduct #liberty #psychologicalsafetyatworkact #freedom

"When you see something that is not right, not fair, not just, you have a moral obligation to do something about it." - John Lewis "Damaged people damage people." - Steve Maraboli "Weakness of character is the only defect which cannot be amended." - Francois de La Rochefoucauld #takeaction #right #fair #justice #obligation #leadersarentbullies #healthyworkplaces #leaderselevatethoughtandconduct #truth #psychologicalsafetyatworkact #equality

"Every institution, including the judiciary has its share of black sheep and corrupt judges." - Prashant Bhushan "When the law no longer protects you from the corrupt, but protects the corrupt from you – you know your nation is doomed." - Anonymous "A corrupt judge does not carefully search for the truth." - Horace "Make crime pay. Become a lawyer." - Will Rogers #justice #truth #rights #democracy #equality #leadersarentbullies #healthyworkplaces #leaderselevatethoughtandconduct #fair #psychologicalsafetyatworkact #integrity

"It is not enough to break the silence; we must break the cycle of ignorance." - Hagir Elsheikh "It is a denial of justice not to stretch out a helping hand to the fallen; that is the common right of humanity." — Seneca the Elder #speakup #help #encourage #justice #protect #leadersarentbullies #healthyworkplaces #leaderselevatethoughtandconduct #action #psychologicalsafetyatworkact #freedom If a workplace is toxic, it’s still possible, even without being a boss, to implement damage control strategies. Advocate for yourself and others.

"For world peace, there must be peace in the heart". - Lao Tzu  "It isn’t enough to talk about peace. One must believe in it. And it isn’t enough to believe in it. One must work at it". - Eleanor Roosevelt #peace #heart #values #belief #action #love #leadersarentbullies #healthyworkplaces #leaderselevatethoughtandconduct #justice #psychologicalsafetyatworkact #freedom

"Unrealistic expectations are perilous because they are set to never be met and to cause unending stress.  They are power and control mechanisms." - Shree Shambav "Even a mistake may turn out to be the one thing necessary to a worthwhile achievement. Great managers welcome mistakes." — Henry Ford #keepgoing #Innovation #welcome #learning #leadersarentbullies #healthyworkplaces #leaderselevatethoughtandconduct #growth #psychologicalsafetyatworkact #encouragement

It's an honor to be interviewed by my good friend Bernie Tiger Resilience LLC on his initial Silver Warriors Journey Podcast found here:  https://youtu.be/ySQO9oe6mX0  I hope you find it beneficial.  Your input is welcome! Please feel free to share to help!

"The single most important ingredient in the recipe for success is transparency because transparency builds trust." - Denise Morrison "The greatest deception (people) suffer is from their own opinions." - Leonardo da Vinci #Transparency #honesty #Integrity #trust #leadersarentbullies #healthyworkplaces #leaderselevatethoughtandconduct #facts #psychologicalsafetyatworkact #freedom  Bullies thrive on subjectivity and flawed mental models. Don’t let them get away with it. Insist on transparency, objectivity, and accountability.

"America stands as a beacon of hope and the possibility of a better life." - Chris Van Hollen "We shall nobly save or meanly lose the last best hope of earth. Other means may succeed; this could not fail." - Abraham Lincoln #beacon #hope #life #Liberty #happiness #leadersarentbullies #healthyworkplaces #leaderselevatethoughtandconduct #freedom #psychologicalsafetyatworkact #peace